Saturday, May 2, 2009

Have you passed the point of no return?

I have made this blog to help those people who have already gone through the pains of trying to save their marriage and finally realised that it is to late and now have to deal with the struggles of actually getting divorced.

I´m sure you have all heard the horror stories of divorces ending badly, maybe it has even happened to you or one of your close friends. No matter what your situation it is essential that you get the right advice during this tough time and make the right decisions so that this whole thing can end in the best way possible. I am a professional in this area and I can tell you now that this whole process wont be easy but hopefully the information and advice that I can give you on this blog will make it a little bit better. On this blog you will find articles and information about the divorce process and links to other sites and resources that I am familiar with and will be reviewing for you.

Good luck, we will get through this together.

Ben

Friday, May 1, 2009

Even though the relationship between you and your spouse has changed and you may no longer be living together, until you are legally divorced, you are still married. The legal ramifications of being married vary from state to state, but generally speaking, until you are divorced you and your spouse have certain rights to each other’s money, deferred compensation, pensions, insurance benefits, real estate, and other property. In general, until you are divorced not only can you not remarry but also anything you obtain may be subject to a claim of ownership, in whole or in part, by your spouse, and the future ownership of assets and property already obtained may be unclear. Even if you have a prenuptial agreement, your spouse may succeed in having it declared invalid. In short, the potential to lose things you think are yours remains until the divorce is final and/or all appeals have been exhausted. This is a very important fact to keep this in mind throughout your separation.

State laws, federal laws, code, and guidelines are the ground rules of separation and divorce. For example: the law specifying what you or your spouse must prove to be entitled to varies from state to state. Some states require proof of certain "grounds," such as adultery while other states have "no-fault" divorces. Some states require the two parties to live separately (and under specific conditions) for a certain period of time. All states have unique residency requirements. These few examples are touching the surface of what can make the process of divorce more complicated than one might expect.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Some product reviews

This blog is a great starting point to get advice about divorce and as time goes on I will keep adding great new things to help you deal with difficult process. If you really want to get the edge in your divorce process there are some great products around that I have worked with in the past and can highly recommend for you. Below are some reviews and links to some of the best. Enjoy!

Men's Divorce Tactics

This great ebook is written by Jim Williams, a very successful and highly sought after divorce lawyer. In this great resource he reveals all secrets that the other lawyers wont tell you (without it costing you thousands of dollars). You will find out how to separate from your wife – without also being separated from your house, your kids, your assets and everything else that you worked so hard for all these years. If you are concerned about your wife getting everything in the divorce this could be one of the most important things you ever read. Click here to check out Men's Divorce Tactics.

Happily Divorced

This product provides a unique approach to divorce which I think you are going to like. One of the best things about this product is that is written by a renowned psychologist and highly successful attorney at law so that you will go into your divorce proceedings prepared mentally, emotionally and with the best legal advice available! The biggest reason for messy divorces is that the relationship between the couple deteriorates as the divorce process proceeds making rational communication and compromises impossible. This amazing product actually shows you how to smooth out this process and become happily divorced. Check it out by clicking here.

There Is Life After Whats-His-Name

This unique ebook gives great advice and help to women who are going through the pains of a breakup or divorce and shows you how you are going to get through it and why there really is life after whats-his-name. No matter how hopeless your situation feels this book will give you the advice and support you need to help you move forward. A must read for all women going through a divorce, click here to find out more.

Divorce Secrets

This tell all book written for women by a woman who knows her stuff gives a really good down to earth look at the process of divorce and how it will affect your lifestyle, your children, your home and all of your assets. She gives away loads of free bonuses without you even having to spend a dime so you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by clicking here and finding out for yourself.